Mother’s Day traces its modern origins to a daughter’s devotion. In 1908, Anna Jarvis held a memorial service for her mother, Ann Jarvis, who had passed three years earlier in 1905. Ann Jarvis was no ordinary woman. She had tended to the wounded soldiers of both sides during the American Civil War and founded “Mother’s Day Work Clubs” to advocate for public health improvements and better conditions for families and communities.
Anna intended Mother’s Day to be a deeply personal tribute—an individual’s heartfelt recognition of their own mother’s sacrifices and love. Yet by 1914, President Woodrow Wilson, a Democrat, saw political opportunity and proclaimed it a national holiday. Anna Jarvis would later spend years denouncing the growing commercialism that turned the day into a festival of flowers, cards, and gifts, far removed from its sincere beginnings.
Despite these distortions, the essence remains: it is incumbent upon us, as a society, to make things good for mothers and families. We must not give up on hope.
At present, there are numerous obstacles to childbearing and raising families—economic pressures, career demands, and cultural shifts. It doesn’t have to be this way. Every family negotiates sacrifices at many points so that the family unit can thrive and grow. One much-discussed issue is women in the workplace and demands for perfect “equal pay” outcomes. This is something of a furphy. There will always be trade-offs and sacrifices in life; the focus should be on what is best for families as a whole, not rigid ideological score-keeping.
This truth was recognised by former Australian Treasurer Peter Costello, whose pro-family policies, including the baby bonus, famously contributed to a baby boom during his tenure. Families responded positively to incentives that made raising children more viable.
In a public sense, the best gift we can give mothers this Mother’s Day—and every day—is prosperity and affluence for the broader community. That means policies aimed at improving workforce participation and outcomes, lowering public debt, reducing regulatory burdens, and allowing businesses to profit and grow. Strong economies support strong families.
To put our own challenges into stark perspective, consider the horrifying image above: a Sudanese woman subjected to the barbaric practice of “tyre necklace” burning—doused in fuel and set alight after a tire was forced around her—allegedly for being unfaithful. This is the face of true, visceral misogyny and brutality against women in parts of the world.

Do the Trump haters, so quick to decry perceived slights in the West, see this misogyny? Real oppression exists far beyond the borders of our comfortable debates. As we honour our mothers, let us commit to building societies where families can flourish, and never lose hope in the enduring power of motherhood and human resilience.

