The Martyrdom of a Murderer: Izz al-Din al-Haddad and the Asymmetry of Grief
Izz al-Din al-Haddad, known as Abu Suhaib and one of the last surviving architects of the October 7, 2023 massacre, is dead. Killed in an Israeli airstrike on May 16, 2026, in Gaza City’s Rimal neighborhood, along with his wife and 19-year-old daughter. Within hours, images flooded the world: his body wrapped in Hamas and Palestinian flags, carried through the streets, surrounded by thousands of mourners in a public funeral procession.
Such swift, public dignity was cruelly denied to the roughly 1,200 victims of the assault he helped orchestrate. Many October 7 bodies were burned beyond recognition, mutilated, or desecrated. Families waited in agony for identification through DNA, dental records, or tattoos. Some remains lingered unidentified for months. Hamas fighters, equipped with bodycams, filmed their atrocities for propaganda—yet the victims’ loved ones were robbed even of open caskets or timely funerals.
Al-Haddad, born in 1970, joined Hamas around its founding in the late 1980s. His radicalization aligned closely with the surge in Iranian funding for militant Islamist groups—sometimes labeled Islamofascism for its totalitarian fusion of supremacist ideology, cult of death, and rejection of coexistence. Iran’s support for Hamas and Palestinian Islamic Jihad provided money, weapons, and training, transforming localized rejectionism into a well-armed proxy war machine.
Many of his “operations” strayed far from any recognizable core of Islamic ethics: deliberate targeting of civilians, sexual violence, burning families alive, and using hostages as human shields. Yet too few voices in the broader Muslim world or Western left robustly challenged the grotesque distortion that equated such barbarism with “resistance” or religious duty. Silence, or worse, equivocation, enabled it.
Two of al-Haddad’s sons preceded him in death—killed in earlier Israeli strikes in 2025. Now his wife and daughter join them. This is the bitter harvest of a life spent building tunnels, planning mass murder, and embedding military assets amid civilians. Hamas leaders have long accepted—and at times welcomed—the deaths of their own families and people as fuel for the narrative. Al-Haddad reportedly used hostages for protection while directing operations.
What alternative existed to the Israeli precision strike that finally removed him? Negotiations? Hamas’s charter, ideology, and repeated actions reject Israel’s existence. Ceasefires have repeatedly served as rearmament periods. Diplomatic land concessions? One need only look at history: withdrawals and offers have been met with rockets and tunnels, not peace. The question of whether England or France “might have given some of their land for peace” is telling. Sovereign nations do not cede territory to terrorists who seek their annihilation. Israel, a tiny democracy surrounded by rejectionist forces, faces an enemy that celebrates death while its victims mourn life.
Al-Haddad’s public funeral, complete with flags and processions, stands in stark contrast to the hidden horrors he inflicted. It reveals the moral inversion: terrorists receive open mourning; their victims receive denial, distortion, or indifference. Precision strikes against such figures are not escalations—they are the tragic necessity born of an enemy that builds its strategy around civilian suffering on both sides.
The cycle continues because one side chooses it. Until the ideology that produced al-Haddad is confronted and defeated—not appeased—more funerals, on all sides, will follow. Israel chose targeted action against a master architect of massacre. The alternative was allowing him to plan the next one.


